With new jobs, cities, partners, friends, and courses, it’s
quite likely that you will be an awkward newbie at least once in your life.
You’re not alone – many people are confronted with new situations and there are ways of making these transitions a bit easier. We bring you the Savvy nzgirl’s Guide to taking all the awkwardness out of new situations!
Moving to a new cityThis may sound really obvious, but visit your new city before you move there just to become familiar with your new surroundings. If you’re flatting or buying, check out prices and areas which you would like to live. If you plan on using public transport, have a look at timetables, fares, and locations of bus and train stops. Join clubs and sports teams to help you make new friends and ease the boredom.
Starting a new course/job
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working environment, the people and what’s expected of you. If you have a copy of the employment guide have a look through it - it will give you an idea of what to expect. When you start, be friendly, talk to people, participate in social activities and if you have any problems talk to friends, co-workers or your boss.
working environment, the people and what’s expected of you. If you have a copy of the employment guide have a look through it - it will give you an idea of what to expect. When you start, be friendly, talk to people, participate in social activities and if you have any problems talk to friends, co-workers or your boss.
If you are starting a new course, have a look at the enrolment guide to find out details such as where you need to go, what time your classes start and what class materials may need. Finally, be friendly and talk to your tutor if you 
have any problems.
Moving into a new living situation
Be diplomatic, communicative, and courteous. Treat your new housemates as you would like to be treated. Make sure you’re clear about things like paying rent, expenses, cleaning and cooking rosters, early on in the living arrangement, to avoid awkward arguments. Your home is your haven away from the rest of the world, so you want it to be a place that you feel completely comfy in!
Joining a new exercise class
Firstly, pick a class that you will enjoy and is at your level. Don’t feel silly for starting at the beginners level! Before the class, find out what you need to bring and what clothes to wear, if in doubt wear something loose and comfy. Smile and show that you’re eager to learn. If you’re totally shy, ask a friend to come along for an extra confidence boost.
Meeting your partner’s friends for the first time
Before you meet the friends, ask your partner about them so you have something to say and know what to expect. When you do meet them, be friendly, relaxed and open minded. If you think about it, your man’s friends are probably alot like him, so focus on all the things that you two have in common, and helpfully they’ll come into play when you all get chatting!
Krystle Chester
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