The sex lives of 20-something kiwi girls have got everyone hot under the collar. And not necessarily in a good way. We want to know your thoughts…
If you believe the recent hype:
Pretty much all 20-something kiwi girls do on their weekends is get smashed and trawl the town looking for an easy lay
No one goes on dates anymore, because… First meetings are to ascertain a couple’s sexual compatibility, not their personality match. That is if you get as far as a second meeting.
Having an average of 2-3 sexual partners a year is outrageously promiscuous (based on a 25 year old who has 20 partner and started having sex at 17).
AND we’re all supposed to be horrified by these findings!
Here at nzgirl we’re pretty sure
There are heaps of ways you also spend your weekends
Dating isn’t dead
Drunken scores aren’t a new phenomenon and they can even lead to a fabulous relationship (who knew!)
Having 20+ sexual partners isn’t that outrageous (you do the math above) and neither are you a prude if you’ve only had one.
And in fact it’s not up to us, or anyone else for that matter, to judge you for your choices or tell you how you should be running your life and your relationships (or lack thereof).
Frankly, it’s not a black and white world out there. We’d prefer a world of choice and freedom that sees you tailor your choices to suit you.
But, however you’re having sex, we at nzgirl want it to be on your terms, the safe option and hopefully enjoyable.
Love the nzgirl team xx
Tell us how you feel about the media claims that us 20-somethings are a promiscuous lot. Email us at info@nzgirl.co.nz and let us know!
Pretty much all 20-something kiwi girls do on their weekends is get smashed and trawl the town looking for an easy lay