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Once you’ve found that special someone, how do you keep the relationship strong through good times and bad? Though every relationship is different, there a few essential things that every couple needs to keep things running smoothly. Read on for our top secrets to a happy relationship... Be yourself Being yourself and exposing your vulnerabilities to one another builds trust and brings you closer. Just like how in Twilight Edward loves Bella for who she is – natural, klutzy and human – you shouldn’t be afraid to show the real you!
Try a little tenderness
Always treat each other the way you would want to be treated. If you have a grievance that needs airing, try to communicate with kindness rather than launching into personal insults or speaking out of anger. Communicate openly We all know how important good communication is, but very few of us get it right. Good communication involves being honest and listening openly to one another. It’s also important to discuss problems as they arise rather than ignoring them. Get in touch Physical touch is a great way to bond and build feelings of affection for one another. Whether it’s holding hands walking down the street, cuddling on the couch or by giving each other a hug goodbye, you’ll be getting a good dose of the warm-fuzzies.
Take time out
Whether it’s a weekend away or just a day-trip to somewhere new, getting away from your usual routine is a great way to get conversation going and spend some quality time remembering why you fell in love. Show your support When one of you has to make a decision or is faced with a problem, it is essential for the other to show support. Make sure he knows you’re on his side, and provide advice and encouragement where needed. It’s the little things that count Everyone shows their love in different ways; some buy little gifts, some say it with words, some just make small gestures to show they’re thinking of you. Make sure you keep doing the little things, like cooking your partner’s favourite meal, or sending them a nice txt or email, and you’ll keep the love alive. Kayla Langhorne |
