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After spending one too many nights watching Sleepless in Seattle in your pyjamas, you may be thinking it’s time to get out and dating again! Maybe you’re wondering what to do with your newfound single status, or maybe your dating skills are just a little rusty. Read on for our guide on how to get back into the dating scene… Go on the prowl
If you’re on the lookout, you can find available, datable men almost anywhere - whether it’s at the grocery store, the gym or the local bar. Or if you’re a little shy, try finding a date by asking your friends if they know of any eligible men for you to meet at a social gathering or on a blind date. Everyone is trying online dating these days and it has certainly resulted in more than a few successful romances, so why not give it a go? Try sites like Findsomeone.co.nz or Matchfinder.co.nz. There are also many dating organizations throughout New Zealand that organise singles parties, dinners or speed dating events that are a goldmine of single men! Make an impression
When meeting a guy for the first time or trying to get his attention, confidence is key! Pull your shoulders back, make eye contact and send him a smile – you’ll immediately seem friendly and approachable. How you dress also plays a big part in first impressions. Wear something you feel comfortable and attractive in and it will show in your body language. Also keep in mind that what you wear can determine whether a guy thinks you’re the kind of girl he wants to take home to Mum, or just take home for the night. When talking to a guy for the first time, you may find yourself feeling like a deer in the headlights. Next time, before you find yourself speechless or saying something awkward, try to keep the conversation casual, and ask him a few questions about himself. The date
A good first date idea is to meet for coffee or a casual drink. That way you can get to know each other better, and you won’t feel obligated to stick around if the date is turning out to be a dud!
However, if all goes well and you’re keen for a second date, let him know that you had a good time and would like to see him again. Depending on how the date has gone, a goodbye kiss may be good way to end the date and figure out if there’s physical chemistry. In the dating game, remember to take it easy. Rushing yourself or someone else prematurely into a relationship (or into bed) can lead to disaster, so take your foot off the accelerator! The dating process should be enjoyed while it lasts, so sit back, relax and enjoy the ride!
Kayla Langhorne |
