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 So the honeymoon period is over and these days the only action you’re getting is a friendly peck on the cheek - or at best, two minutes of business time on a Wednesday?
When you’ve been in a relationship for a while, your sex life can become predictable or may seem to disappear completely. Try these sexy solutions to put an end to bedroom boredom…  Bring sexy backRediscovering your inner sex kitten may help you to introduce the fireworks back into the bedroom. Those old, grey knickers probably aren’t doing much for your figure or your confidence, so swap them for sexy lingerie in a colour and style that flatters your best features. If you normally get naked with the lights off, show off your new look with low lighting or candlelight as a sensual and flattering option. Another great way to build body confidence is by joining a dance class such as salsa, burlesque or even pole fitness if you’re brave enough! Then, just chuck on a sexy soundtrack in the bedroom and show off your new moves.  Variety is the spice of lifeTo bust out of that sex rut, stretch your sexual boundaries by trying something a little daring! Surprise him with a naughty text while he’s at work or a new position from the Kama Sutra. You could also try keeping a 'Fantasy Box' by the bed - this involves both of you writing down a few things that you want to try on pieces of paper, putting them in the box, and pulling one out at random whenever you need to steam things up. Do you remember when you were first dating, and couldn’t wait to get a moment alone? Refresh your memory by doing everything but sex for a month – this includes kissing, massage and foreplay. At the end of the month, be spontaneous by getting busy in the heat of the moment, somewhere other than the bedroom.  Bring back the butterfliesYour sex life may not be the only thing that needs spicing up, so spend some quality time together to remind each other of why you fell in love. Try turning off the TV for a night, or schedule a romantic date on a monthly basis. Having shared interests or hobbies are another great way to bring you closer - try something that involves working together such as cooking classes, rock-climbing or dance classes. Absence makes the heart grow fonder, so to reclaim that new-love rush, don’t forget to spend some time apart. Spending time on your own hobbies and friends will help you to appreciate each other more. Kayla Langhorne |
