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Dear Frankie, I’ve lost my confidence! I’m a 20 something single girl, who used to love going out and having a great time with my friends; but lately I’ve kinda lost my mojo. Me and my girlfriends used to always go out and have a bit of fun (I’ve been single for the past two years after a serious, long term relationship). A few months ago I met a guy who I really liked. I thought he liked me too, until he went back to his girlfriend. Ever since I’ve just lost all confidence when it comes to guys because I’m afraid of getting hurt again. I never go up and talk to them anymore, and I get jealous and annoyed when I spot my friends talking to guys. How can I get back into the swing of things and get over my jealousy? Mojo-less Dear Mojo-less, The sheer fact you have written to us shows me that you are ready to get your Mojo back! Consider visualising the time when you last had your Mojo, what did the world look like for you, how did you treat your friends and girl you know it was easy to strut your stuff.  Those great feelings and high levels of confidence are what you need to recapture to move forward. Reclaiming your confidence can be a gradual process, be assured we all go through that in different stages of our lives and sometimes those people we lose it over are just not worth it! The fact that your guy went back to his previous girlfriend is certainly not a reflection on you, obviously he had not resolved his last relationship. Later in life you will look back on this time and know he was just a blimp on the rector scale! There is a great saying, “it’s better to have loved and lost than to never have loved at all”. Life’s experiences make us who we are. Make the conscience decision to back yourself again, believe that you can be happy, put time into allowing it to happen and the rest will follow. Dissing on your friends just because they are talking to guys needs some addressing. Be mindful that jealousy can be a destructive emotion and guess what; your friends will not thank you for it. If you are having difficulty moving through this stage seek advice from those who have the expertise to help, a family member, counsellor or a good friend. Green eyed monster, here’s the season to be jolly, put on the funky gear, get your friends together and hit the town with Mojo power!
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